There are three absolutely awesome things about College that make it exciting to meet and eventually date women:
1) A lot of cultural norms are already PREDEFINED by tradition, and that makes what women do in college absolutely PREDICTABLE. When I was in college, one of the big things were the Basketball games especially the ones scheduled against our rival school. There was also the nearby mall where you could drink, hang out and grab a Starbucks, and you've got a nearby 18 and up club where kids partied.
THAT MEANS – conversational topics are way easier than for grown ups, who after college are tossed in this crazy place called "the real world." As long as you're in college, the predefined norms, like rival basketball games, places to eat, places to discover, groups to join, events to attend, who the hottest guy/girl is, are basically what everyone's talking about.
2) Women in College are easier to talk to because of their hunger for a bigger social network, a diverse amount of friends and acquaintances, and again, the predefined social norms.
3) Unlike high school, where there are a lot of "cliques" and "tribes" in a smaller space, College is huge. College life ENCOURAGES joining as many cliques and tribes as you can, and most have pretty much equal social statuses. In high school, you usually just had the cool kids and the non-cool kids. In College, there are lots of things that are cool – sports, music, the arts, even debating – so it's not like your rise in status won't happen. You have to want it though.
Take the Rolodex Out
It's time to start remembering faces and names, because that's what makes a Social Butterfly a master of his domain. You have to know the little details, like "when her next game is" or "what class she hates the most" or "who she's rooting for in the semi-finals" or "what her favorite album is."
A Social Master in College who knows the value of small talk, and its not just low quality small talk, its HIGH quality small talk – be the guy who remembers things like her pet name for god's sakes. No other guy would remember that, would they?
Write this stuff down if you have to. Target key women in social groups your engaged in and get the details.
Meeting Women in Class
THE RULE IS: Strike first, strike fast, strike hard.
The first day of college is the most crucial part in instantly defining your college social life.
How early or late you arrive, what cologne you're wearing (if you've got any on), what clothes do you have on, who you talk to first, where you position yourself in class, is very important.
Most men find it hard to talk game to a woman during class because they don't come early enough to plant the seeds. Look, some courses are tough as nails, so once the professor gets on it, you're 95% screwed. The only way to get her attention from there is to participate in class discussions a lot and heck that doesn't even guarantee anything. So, don't attempt to meet women during class.
What you want to do is COME EARLY and STAY LATE. It's a very simple trick in the book like many of my strategies that's gotten me two girlfriends for the two courses I majored in College. In large groups, like in a class, whoever speaks up first and "connects" groups together is the leader of the group, and we all know that the leader is the one women want.
Social/Academic Groups: the Do's and Don'ts
DO NOT:
Join College groups just because you want to meet women.
Join too many groups to where your identity becomes confusing (like a skateboarding, ballroom dancing, debating science lab intern)
DO:
Join College groups that will make you stand out.
Join College groups that LOVE to party or host house parties.
Join College groups that have multiple reaches and allied groups.
Time to Be Hungry and Get your Chatter On
Look, I had the best time when I was in College. I had the cool girlfriend, an acquaintance here and there greeting me on every corner of the campus, different cliques I could make a pit stop on to say what's up, and a lot of people pulling me several different directions because they wanted me to go to their events. The number one attribute I had to get this, was that I was HUNGRY and I INITIATED CONVERSATIONS.
So go out there and start dominating your campus.
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